Don’t Wait for Permission: Why Waiting Until You’re Broken Isn’t Noble—It’s Dangerous
- Glennae Davis
- Jul 3
- 2 min read

July 3rd 2025
Don’t Wait for Permission: Why waiting until you’re broken isn’t noble—it’s dangerous.
Nurses are trained to keep going.To put the patient first.To stay “professional” no matter how unsafe, overworked, or disrespected they feel.
But somewhere along the line, we’ve started confusing resilience with self-abandonment.
If your body is breaking down—if you’re crying before shifts, numb during them, and exhausted afterward—it’s not a test of your strength.It’s a sign.And ignoring it doesn’t make you noble. It makes you vulnerable.
The System Is Designed to Delay Your Recovery
Most nurses don’t get help until the damage is done.Not because they’re weak—but because the system waits until we’re labeled.Until there’s a “diagnosis.”Until we’re “sick enough” for time off.Until we’re so emotionally shut down, we get reported instead of supported.
And then comes the psychiatrist.The script.The medical device.The shame.
But career burnout is not a mental illness.It’s a reaction to injustice.Unsafe staffing.Race-based patient assignments.Retaliation for doing the right thing.
These are not symptoms of depression.They’re symptoms of a broken system.
Medical Therapy Is Not the Answer
Too many nurses are being funneled into psychiatric treatment—like CES or antidepressants—for what is essentially a workplace injury.
And here’s the truth:💡 CES has limited evidence and real side effects, including worsening depression, scalp pain, and brain fog.💡 Psychiatric meds can numb your emotions—blunting your ability to respond with compassion at the bedside.💡 Diagnoses stay on your record. They follow you. And they can be used against you in return-to-work evaluations.
If your patients and colleagues are noticing you’re distant, irritable, or “not yourself,” you don’t need a diagnosis.You need a plan.
You Have the Right to Recover Without Shame
What if you didn’t need a doctor’s permission to take your health seriously?
What if you could start now—without a diagnosis, a device, or a prescription?
That’s exactly why I created the Be Brave Nurse Recovery System™.
📅 Tier 1 is designed for nurses who know something is off—before it becomes a crisis.
It includes:
✔️ My two books on burnout and recovery
✔️ Self-paced prompts to reconnect with your calling
✔️ A strategy grounded in evidence, advocacy, and real outcomes
✔️ A 40-day nurse-led reset that protects your future, not labels your past
Before Your Shrink—Think.
Don’t Wait for Permission: Why waiting until you’re broken isn’t noble—it’s dangerous.
➡️ Begin your 40-day reset today with Tier 1 of the Be Brave Nurse Recovery System™📥
Glennae’s RX for Life — Pivot. Profit. Promise.
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